8 The life and conversation of the elder of the two brothers appeared indeed more conformed to this world than to Christ, although he also had after his marriage corrected to a great extent the faults of his early irreligious years. It may, nevertheless, have been not otherwise than in mercy that our merciful God appointed him to be the companion of his brother in death. But as to that younger brother, he lived religiously, and was eminent as a Christian both in heart and in practice.
The report that he would approve himself such when commissioned to serve the Church came before him to Africa, and this good report followed him still when he had come. In his conduct, what innocence! In his friendship, what constancy! In his study of Christian truth, what zeal! In his religion, what sincerity! In his domestic life, what purity! In his official duties, what integrity! What patience be showed to enemies, what affability to friends, what humility to the pious, what charity to all men!
How great his promptitude in granting, and his bashfulness in asking a favour! How genuine his satisfaction in the good deeds, and his sorrow over the faults of men! What spotless honour, noble grace, and scrupulous piety shone in him! In rendering assistance, how compassionate he was! In forgiving injuries, how generous! In prayer, how confiding! When well informed on any subject, with what modesty he was wont to communicate useful knowledge! When conscious of ignorance, with what diligence did he endeavour by investigation to overcome the disadvantage!
How singular was his contempt for the things of time! How ardent his hope and his desires in regard to the blessings that are eternal! He would have relinquished all secular business and girded himself with the insignia of the Christian warfare, had he not been prevented by his having entered into the married state; for he had not begun to desire better things before the time when, being already involved in these bonds, it would have been, notwithstanding their inferiority, an unlawful thing for him to rend them asunder.
Source: Letters (New Advent)